Couples Work
Effective Communication for Thriving Intimate Relationships
“Being able to do the work together has made us a stronger and more empathetic couple.” Dominic and Carly
Many couples struggle with communication breakdowns, recurring conflicts, or feelings of being misunderstood, which can lead to distance and frustration. Couples work offers a transformative opportunity to deepen connection and create lasting change in your relationship. Through couples coaching, you’ll discover tools to navigate these challenges with greater compassion and understanding. Together, we’ll explore the underlying needs behind protective responses like anger, resentment, or withdrawal through the lens of IFS (Internal Family Systems), IFIO (Intimacy From Inside Out), and RLT (Relational Life Therapy); allowing you to approach each other with curiosity and empathy instead of defensiveness.
This work helps couples strengthen their ability to communicate openly, co-regulate during times of distress, and build a foundation of trust and safety. The benefits go beyond resolving conflicts—couples often experience a renewed sense of intimacy and a deeper emotional bond. When both partners feel seen, heard, and valued, the relationship becomes a source of support and joy, even in life’s more challenging moments. Strengthening your relationship isn’t about fixing each other; it’s about learning how to show up as your best selves together.
“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage”
Lao Tzu
Create the enriching partnership you’ve been craving.
Working with Heather has taught us the importance of effective communication in a relationship. She has helped us understand each other better and strengthen our bond. Heather has also guided us in healing past traumas and has been instrumental in helping us be kinder, more patient, loving, and genuine with each other. Each session leaves us with valuable knowledge and immediate, positive guidance. Her support has truly transformed our relationship, and we highly recommend her to anyone looking to improve their connection with their partner.
Jesse & Angelica
How This Works
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Intro couples session: understand the dynamics that are actively supporting or hindering the desired connection and map out the cadence of your sessions to fit desired outcomes + time and financial considerations.
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Your IFIO Practitioner
The intimacy that is possible when communication feels safe, transforms our relationship into a safe haven amidst the chaos of a turbulent world. The opportunity to create and nurture a lifelong playmate and companion holds the potential to enrich both the mundane and the magnificent. Schedule a free call with Heather today, to begin moving toward the intimacy you desire.
“We’re all just walking each other home.”
Ram Dass
Frequently Asked Questions
We’ll discuss your budget during your intro call.
We’ll select a re-occurring cadence that works for both of you.
You can expect to see positive results after the first session and the number of sessions will vary based on the needs and commitment of each couple.